Delhi: Bringing medical care to victims of sexual and domestic violence in one of city’s biggest slum areas
Showkat Nanda

Delhi: Bringing medical care to victims of sexual and domestic violence in one of city’s biggest slum areas

March 08, 2018
India

Shailja was three months pregnant when she first came to Umeed Ki Kiran, a community-based clinic run by Doctors Without Borders / Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) in North West Delhi’s densely populated Jahangirpuri area. She looked anxious and confused. Like a lot of women from this area, she had suffered domestic violence, but unlike many others, she decided to seek help.

 

Shailja expressed her need for support during one of the community health education sessions conducted by MSF team in Jahangirpuri. Photo: Showkat Nanda
Shailja expressed her need for support during one of the community health education sessions conducted by MSF team in Jahangirpuri. Photo: Showkat Nanda

 

Shailja grew up in Jahangirpuri, but did not have the opportunity to pursue higher education. She stayed at home to help her mother with domestic chores. Soon after her marriage, she and her husband left for his village. Her husband would assault her physically and sexually, while her in-laws would treat her badly and ridicule her skin complexion. While these incidents took Shailja by surprise, she didn’t express distress until they locked her down one day, ordering her not to step out of the house. That’s when she decided to run away.

 

Jahangirpuri is one of the biggest slums in Delhi and sexual violence is considered normal amongst the community. Photo: Showkat Nanda
Jahangirpuri is one of the biggest slums in Delhi and sexual violence is considered normal amongst the community. Photo: Showkat Nanda

 

After coming back to her parents’ house in Jahangirpuri, she learned she was pregnant. Feelings of sadness and depression weighed her down and she started to feel like a burden on her parents. While she hoped her husband would call and ask her to come back, that call never came. She felt lost and did not know what to do next.

In Jahangirpuri, where sexual violence is considered normal and medical attention is rarely sought, MSF health educators work tirelessly to spread awareness about domestic and sexual violence, the effects it can have on one’s physical and mental health, and how victims should seek timely medical and psychological care. It was during one of these community health education sessions that Shailja expressed her need for psychological care/support. 

After a physical examination with a medical doctor at Umeed Ki Kiran, she was put on treatment for several physical injuries that she had suffered due to regular beatings by her husband. She was also treated for infections resulting from the sexual assault she was subjected to.

 

MSF doctor conducts medical exam on Shailja to check for injuries and STDs. Photo: Showkat Nanda
MSF doctor in Umeed Ki Kiran clinic conducts medical exam on Shailja to check for injuries and infections. Photo: Showkat Nanda

 

She had regular flashbacks of the abuse she suffered which caused sleeplessness, anxiety and loss of appetite. In the several counselling sessions that followed, she opened up about the abuse and shared instances that she found impossible to share even with her mother. The sessions helped her rebuild her lost sense of self-worth and regain the confidence to start life afresh!

Shailja successfully completed her treatment and is the happy mother of a three-month-old boy today. She has joined a vocational course so she can build some skills and raise her child. Though she has completed her treatment, she likes to drop in sometimes to thank the team she feels she owes her new life to!

 

Raising awareness in the community on the medical and psychological consequences of sexual violence is central to this project. A team of MSF health educators regularly organises various events and activities in the community to achieve this. Photo: Showkat Nanda
Raising awareness in the community on the medical and psychological consequences of sexual violence is central to this project. A team of MSF health educators regularly organises various events and activities in the community to achieve this. Photo: Showkat Nanda

 

Some names and identifying details have been changed to protect the privacy of individuals.


Shailja is one of the many victims treated at MSF’s Umeed Ki Kiran clinic. If you or someone you know has been affected by sexual or gender-based violence, help is available 24/7 at the Umeed Ki Kiran Clinic, Mahendra Park, Delhi. Visit https://www.msfindia.in/treating-survivors-sexual-and-gender-based-violence-delhi or call 1 800 102 1075 for support. 

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